If you’re up at 2 AM googling “how to walk down the aisle without tripping,” you are absolutely not alone! Getting married is this wild, beautiful whirlwind of pure magic and butterflies, but let’s be real – it can also make your stomach do actual somersaults. And that walk down the aisle? Yeah, that’s probably the moment that has you feeling all the feels.
Listen, I’ve been behind the camera for over ten years, watching couples navigate this exact moment, and I’ve picked up some seriously good insights along the way. Walking down the aisle seems so simple on paper – your person is waiting for you at the end, there’s beautiful music playing, everyone’s looking at you with hearts in their eyes. But when you’re actually there, in that moment, those nerves can really try to steal your thunder.
So let’s chat about how to make that walk everything you’ve dreamed of, shall we?
Take the deepest breath you’ve ever taken in your life. I’m talking fill-your-lungs-completely deep. Look around – yes, all those people are staring at you, but they’re not judging your dress or wondering if you’ll trip. They’re there because they adore you two together! How incredible is that? Let those nervous butterflies transform into pure excitement because in just a few minutes, you’re going to marry your best friend!
If you’re walking with someone special – maybe your dad, mom, or another loved one – lean into that comfort. Give their hand a little squeeze, shoot them a wink that says “we’ve got this!” They’re probably just as emotional as you are, so a little connection will ground you both.
And your music? Oh sweetie, pick something that makes your heart sing! Whether it’s a classic that gives you chills or something totally unique to you two, let that melody fill you up with all the good feelings.
Here’s the thing everyone needs to hear: walk slowly. Like, ridiculously slowly. I know the adrenaline is pumping and your heart is racing, but trust me when I say you’re not going too slow. This is your moment – savor every single step! If you’re walking with someone, let them be your pace-setter.
Where should you look? Oh, this is the fun part! Lock eyes with your love – seriously, the photos of that moment are pure magic. Look at your guests and drink in all that love they’re radiating toward you. The one place you don’t need to worry about looking? At me! I’m like a wedding ninja over here, capturing everything while staying invisible. Don’t worry about the camera – just be completely, authentically you.
You did it! You’re married! This exit down the aisle is your chance to absolutely bask in this incredible energy. Don’t rush off just yet – soak it all in! Wave at your people, squeeze your new spouse’s hand, and whatever you do, don’t hold back those emotions. Some of my favorite photos ever are couples who are just radiating pure joy as they walk back down that aisle. Cry happy tears, laugh out loud, do a little skip – whatever feels right in your heart!
Quick note: Not every wedding includes a traditional aisle walk, and that’s perfectly beautiful too! Whatever you choose, we’ll make sure you feel confident and ready.
The most important thing I can tell you is this: be present. Feel every moment. Let yourself celebrate and soak up all that love surrounding you. When you do that, not only will your photos be absolutely stunning and natural, but you’ll have these incredible memories seared into your heart forever.
That’s what I want for you on your big day – from the moment you wake up to that last dance – just pure, overwhelming, beautiful love. You deserve to feel every ounce of it.
And I promise to be there – catching every moment – so you can relive it forever.
